Hello everyone! I hope you had a wonderful weekend, and great Mother's Day! Today I quickly wanted to share a FHE I prepared, that we are actually going to be using tonight...so if its a total flop I apologize in advance ;)
We could not be more excited for summer at our house, however, there is one thing that happens every summer at my house that drives me crazy. The fighting!! The kids seem to get bored easier, annoyed quicker, and it drives me crazy! To try and combat this yearly craziness I thought we could do a family night addressing different ways to resolve conflict. First up I found some great information on Pinterest, and put it together on a simple printable we are going to hang up permanently in our family study :)
One by one, we will go through the different ways you can resolve conflict. Some are pretty simple, like ask for help, share, take turns and apologize. Laugh means to just find humor in the situation and be able to laugh at yourself. Chance means to either flip a coin or do rock, paper scissors to make a decision. Avoid means sometimes there are fights that are just not worth fighting, and its ok to just walk away! Finally, compromise is where you both give up a little, but you also both get something you are happy with.
Then for our activity we are going to talk about different situations that "bug us", and then decide what tool we can use to resolve that conflict.
I made these cute little bugs that we cut out and taped up on our big chalkboard.
On the back of each bug I wrote down a real-life scenario, something my kids have encountered recently. The kids can then take turns hitting a bug with a fly swatter, and then taking it off the board, reading the scenario, and finally deciding how they can effectively and kindly resolve the conflict. Some of the scenarios I used were:
My little sister takes my things without asking
My friends want to jump on the tramp, but I want to ride bikes
I do something silly on accident and everyone laughs at me
I lose my temper and say something mean
You get the idea ;)
To finish off the night we are going to read one of our families favorite books, Enemy Pie. If you haven't heard of it, I totally suggest it! It is an awesome story about a boy whose dad helps him find a creative way to resolve his conflict with a neighbor boy. I love that if focuses on kindness, that is what I really want my kids to try and get out of this FHE. No matter what, there is always a chance for us to be kind!